Saturday, February 25, 2012

Flavored White Chai Tea

This is an absolutely wonderful drink to make, for any mood and for any occasion.
My boyfriend and I discovered this wonder with our heads in the clouds.
Who knew?
This is really simple to make.
*This recipe was made for one cup at a time.*


Ingredients:
1. Bigelow Vanilla Chai Tea
2. Milk
3. Pecans
4. Marshmallows
5. Sugar
6. Imitation Vanilla Extract


Directions:
1. Boil 2 cups of water.
2. Steep one tea bag in water.
3. Add half a cup of milk.
4. Add sugar to taste.
5. Add about 6-10 pecans (without shells!) and 2 marshmallows.
6. Add one drop of imitation vanilla extract on each marshmallow.
7. Stir and enjoy!


This also tastes great with a peanut butter sandwich.

Saturday, February 18, 2012

Midnight Theories

Sure, feelings may come and go
But it seems as though the words will never flow
From my thoughts into this pen
Even if I try again and again

I wonder how he does it
To adorn those words so beautifully
To make it seem like it comes naturally
As if there are no cares in this world

"As I look up at the sky
I feel as though I fade away
From the ones I love and hate
This I do not deny

I fear not my future
For it will come one day
All I have to say is
'Watch out for it, babe'

Tell me again
But do not cry
I'll heal your wounds
As time goes by"

These words aren't mine
I wish they were
I'm not the one
You once longed for...

Thursday, February 16, 2012

Arguements in Relationships

Are you constantly in positions where you are caught up in an arguement and it seems to go nowhere? Do you feel like you constantly go around in circles with disputes? Are you afraid of confrontations?

Here's a tip on how to remedy this.

At least most, if not all, relationships have arguements; it's a natural thing, whether they are small arguements or big ones.
It's normal to have arguements once in a while, and in this you both must recognize and understand how to handle it when it happens.
Don't put it off or ignore it, it will only grow bigger and become worse.
Deal with it then and there and you won't have to hassle with it later.

One excellent way to better grasp and get through problems when you are in a serious relationship with someone is to focus on one point at a time. Instead of berating one another on how they feel or the message they are trying to convey, try understanding where they are coming from. If you do not understand, then ask. Maybe you need to have a heart to heart conversation.
If your significant other comes to you and says you both need to talk, stop and listen. Understand.
Don't focus on your feelings and what you think when they are telling you the way they feel; all you are doing is making the situation about you and ignoring them. Take one step at a time.

This works for me, so hopefully it could work for you as well.
Thanks for reading!