Arguements in Relationships

Are you constantly in positions where you are caught up in an arguement and it seems to go nowhere? Do you feel like you constantly go around in circles with disputes? Are you afraid of confrontations?

Here's a tip on how to remedy this.

At least most, if not all, relationships have arguements; it's a natural thing, whether they are small arguements or big ones.
It's normal to have arguements once in a while, and in this you both must recognize and understand how to handle it when it happens.
Don't put it off or ignore it, it will only grow bigger and become worse.
Deal with it then and there and you won't have to hassle with it later.

One excellent way to better grasp and get through problems when you are in a serious relationship with someone is to focus on one point at a time. Instead of berating one another on how they feel or the message they are trying to convey, try understanding where they are coming from. If you do not understand, then ask. Maybe you need to have a heart to heart conversation.
If your significant other comes to you and says you both need to talk, stop and listen. Understand.
Don't focus on your feelings and what you think when they are telling you the way they feel; all you are doing is making the situation about you and ignoring them. Take one step at a time.

This works for me, so hopefully it could work for you as well.
Thanks for reading!