Midnight Theories

Sure, feelings may come and go
But it seems as though the words will never flow
From my thoughts into this pen
Even if I try again and again

I wonder how he does it
To adorn those words so beautifully
To make it seem like it comes naturally
As if there are no cares in this world

"As I look up at the sky
I feel as though I fade away
From the ones I love and hate
This I do not deny

I fear not my future
For it will come one day
All I have to say is
'Watch out for it, babe'

Tell me again
But do not cry
I'll heal your wounds
As time goes by"

These words aren't mine
I wish they were
I'm not the one
You once longed for...

Arguements in Relationships

Are you constantly in positions where you are caught up in an arguement and it seems to go nowhere? Do you feel like you constantly go around in circles with disputes? Are you afraid of confrontations?

Here's a tip on how to remedy this.

At least most, if not all, relationships have arguements; it's a natural thing, whether they are small arguements or big ones.
It's normal to have arguements once in a while, and in this you both must recognize and understand how to handle it when it happens.
Don't put it off or ignore it, it will only grow bigger and become worse.
Deal with it then and there and you won't have to hassle with it later.

One excellent way to better grasp and get through problems when you are in a serious relationship with someone is to focus on one point at a time. Instead of berating one another on how they feel or the message they are trying to convey, try understanding where they are coming from. If you do not understand, then ask. Maybe you need to have a heart to heart conversation.
If your significant other comes to you and says you both need to talk, stop and listen. Understand.
Don't focus on your feelings and what you think when they are telling you the way they feel; all you are doing is making the situation about you and ignoring them. Take one step at a time.

This works for me, so hopefully it could work for you as well.
Thanks for reading!

Philly D on the news and my little tangent.

Check out this Philip Defranco video posted on Monday, February 13, 2012. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zd5l0gSOR5o ------------------------------------ Sent from the Unofficial Philly D Android App. Search "sxephil" in the Market!

I agree with what Phillip DeFranco said about Chris Brown and his fans.
I DO NOT take this subject lightly.

As an independent woman, I find the teen tweets highly disgusting.
Either these kids are stupid, trolls, or haven't had any kind of experience in this matter. I'm not saying that they should have experience, but that this is not a laughing matter. This kind of thing really angers me. I feel that those (men or women) who beat on another for whatever emotional reasoning or irrational logic they process in their thick, mindless skulls have major issues with themselves.Trying to control someone with physical abuse is a childish way of handling situations.
When something does not go your way, you do not lash out and have a fit like a child.You are supposed to be an adult; act like one.
If you are angry at someone, you do not beat them.
If you are disappointed in what someone did, you do not beat them.
Words would suffice; violence is never the answer in these cases.


 As a child I remember looking at my mother's bruised face after my father had beaten her.The impact from his fist busted a blood vessel in her eye.I was not at home to witness the event, but I remember it like it was yesterday.I remember being angry at my father and confused at the situation.I did not understand why he had hit her and why my family had started to fall apart.I remember what my older sister told him back then. She had the most serious tone and look on her face that a child could conjure up and said, "Daddy, you not supposed to hit women!"


 As I conveyed before, I do not take this kind of thing lightly.It is a serious situation every time it happens.So to all of the kids that find Chris Brown hilarious, do you want him to beat the f*c* out of you? Would you enjoy that? Do you think you would not suffer injury?I don't think so.
Ladies, could you imagine what would be going through a man's head when he is beating on you (and vice versa)?He might intend on killing you, or if that wasn't his goal, your death is still a possibility.

RESPECT YOURSELF!!